My bf of 2 years wont have with me?

my bf prefers bjs over and i ve had enough .i dont get anything . i havent had in 2 years ! i tried talking about it but he says we ll do it and we never do . i need some excuses to stop the bjs for good . i ve tried telling him my teeth hurt from the dentist , that my back hurts , but these are only temporary . the longest i havent given him a bj was 2 months . and instead of having with me , he kept begging for a bj and j * rking off until he got one . im on the verge of breaking up please help . ps i ve thought of changing the bjs so that he gets hard, but he doesnt finish.will this stop him from liking them and sleep with me ?